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Building trust

By Denise Adamik, Maid in America

Entering a new client’s home for the first time to set up a cleaning schedule has a lot to do with first impressions on both sides. After all, you are a complete stranger who sooner or later will know every inch of their home, and building trust is a very important part of this job.

That reminds me of Mr. and Mrs. Smith, (not their real names) a retired couple who called upon Maid in America to clean their house every other week. According to Mrs. Smith, she had been cleaning her own house for 40 years and she knew how it should be cleaned and how long it should take. I told her my price and she said "How much? That's a lot just to clean for a few hours. My sister has a cleaning person and she doesn't charge that much!". I told her I couldn't go any lower- that was my minimum. She had to ask her husband if it was alright. He said, "Well give her a try and see if you like the work". As I began the job, I could feel her eyes on me. I am accustomed to that, and since she was not comfortable with me, I could understand. Once the job was done, she asked me to come back again in two weeks. It took about two months, but one day she asked me if I could help her change the bed sheets because she had a bad back. She stayed in the bedroom to make sure I did it correctly. I think she was surprised and certainly happy! Keep in mind that the two of them are always home when I am there.

About five months later, to my amazement, they both went to the store after I arrived. At last, the trust was there. It was a signal that, "we trust you enough to leave you in our house alone". She was thrilled when I came to clean, and we quickly developed a positive rapport.

Well you've all heard of Murphy's law. Read on.

On one occasion, I brought along help to lighten the load. We finished up and went home. On the next visit Mrs. Smith asks, " Are you alone today, dear?" I replied, "Yes". "That's good," she said. "Did your little helper vacuum the living room carpet last time?" Now Mrs. Smith knew this, she was watching because a new person was in the house. "Well she must have not vacuumed the same way you do because look at the carpet. It's rippled in a few areas here and there." I was stunned. Was my helper really the cause of this destruction? I politely answered," I don't think the way the carpet was vacuumed had anything to do with it". She thought otherwise. Mr. Smith who usually remains quiet and composed in the background actually showed a bit of displeasure. "The carpet is only a year old. This should have never happened." All those months of building trust looked like it was going down the tubes. They said they would call the carpet installer to come and take a look and they would let me know the outcome. Without admitting guilt, I told them to let me know and if necessary I would take appropriate action.

Two weeks later, I arrived to clean up ( or be cleaned up) and was immediately shown the carpet area, which was back to its original condition. Mrs. Smith was very understanding. She understood what the installer said: IT WAS NOT MY FAULT! He said that a vacuum could not have done this, but carpets occasionally buckle after a period of time and yes, they fixed it free of charge. Needless to say, I was whistling all the way home. The Smith's were very apologetic, and I am still cleaning (alone). "Please do not bring anyone else with you. We prefer only you in our house, you are the only one who can clean as good as you do." A compliment to be sure.